A message arrives: ‘Can we talk tomorrow?’ Before you know what it is about, you are already wondering what you did wrong. You rehearse explanations, reread conversations and find it hard to enjoy your evening. If you brought this situation to a session, I would want to hear both the message and the story that began inside you as soon as you read it.
Before the answer, there is a feeling asking to be heard
I might ask what you felt first and what you are afraid of hearing tomorrow. Perhaps the words are ‘I have disappointed someone,’ ‘I will be rejected,’ or ‘I need to explain myself.’ A small incident brings us close to something deeply personal: how you experience other people’s expectations and how much room you allow yourself to be human, with questions and imperfections.
In timeline work, we approach the chapters of your life that you associate with this feeling. You may recognise the pressure of a previous job or the habit of constantly trying to read someone’s mood. We explore memories you already know and what they mean to you. An image or impression arising during a session is something to explore as an inner experience, rather than evidence that an event happened.
How I accompany you when we reach a tender place
I adapt my guidance to what you share. If we arrive at the belief ‘I am accepted only when I do everything well,’ we give it time. I ask questions, listen to changes in how you speak about yourself and, if it resonates with you, bring the spiritual dimension of my work into our meeting. My connection with the divine is part of how I am present with you.
What you want from this encounter may be very concrete: to receive a question without immediately placing yourself in the position of someone who has done wrong. To recognise your emotion while still feeling free to ask for clarification. Sometimes the answer begins with a simple sentence: ‘I can find out what this is about before judging myself.’
Meeting today’s reaction with more understanding
A short message from someone important can stir unease before you know its meaning. In our session, we look at what you felt and the conclusion that arrived so quickly. I help you explore connections you recognise in your own story. Then we return to the present: what do you know now, and what do you need to ask before replying?
Explore a pattern that keeps returning in your life
Dr. Cristina Toader · Divine Words From God