‘In our family, money only comes through hard work.’ ‘When you love someone, you give in.’ ‘A good parent always puts themselves last.’ Perhaps you heard words like these until they began to sound like your own thoughts. Then one day you notice how difficult it is to rest, ask for something in a relationship, or give time to a wish of your own.
The rule you carry into everyday choices
In a session, I would begin with where you meet that rule today. For example, you plan to finish work at a certain time, then accept one more request and cancel your evening. What do you tell yourself? That someone will stop appreciating you? That rest must wait until everything is finished? Your answers show us what deserves attention.
Through Timeline Healing, we can approach the periods when you learned to think this way. We are interested in how you experienced them and the meaning you gave them. Sometimes you recognise a family message; sometimes a conclusion you drew after a difficult event. You bring the story, and I help you explore how it connects with the freedom you are seeking today.
What would a choice that includes you sound like?
My work with beliefs, intuition and spiritual guidance comes together in how I adapt the session. If we discover a wish to be loved beneath the constant effort, we stay close to that need. This can be the most personal part of our meeting: being able to say what you hope to receive through everything you do for others.
Then we consider a situation coming up in your life. How would you like to respond to an evening work request? What would you like to ask your partner for? What time would you like to keep for yourself as a parent? We look for words that feel natural to you and express what you have understood. Change begins to take shape when you can connect it with tomorrow’s life.
Which old rule would you like to choose again, consciously?
‘I have to work until I am exhausted to be worthy’ may be an idea you have heard for years. When you recognise it, we can look at how it shapes your choices today. I draw on my experience of working with beliefs to accompany this exploration. Then you can imagine a day in which your worth and your need for rest have room together.
Explore what you want to change in your future story
Dr. Cristina Toader · Divine Words From God